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Friday, February 4, 2011

STOP AVOIDING REJECTION



A lot of guys are looking for a way to approach a woman without having to risk rejection.
And I know that what I am about to say goes AGAINST all the popular advice on ways to progress an interaction and avoid rejection.
But the TRUTH is, the attitude and the tactics of trying to avoid rejection will WEAKEN your WHOLE VIBE.
Instead, EMBRACE the OPPORTUNITY for GETTING the woman you want, and focus on THAT, rather than on focusing on how to prevent rejection.
You either learn all the ways to SUCCEED, or you learn all the ways to NOT LOSE TOO BADLY.

You CAN'T really do both.

And really, who cares about not losing too badly here?
What, are you risking millions of dollars here?
What does this attitude of avoiding rejection give you in this area of your life?
"Not losing too badly" in this area of your life is really just an EMOTIONAL PERSPECTIVE that is LUDICROUS, as the main thing is either you SUCCEED or you DON'T.
As Yoda said "Do or do not. There is no try."
Yes, success is NOT always guaranteed.
HOWEVER, I DO GUARANTEE YOU THAT THE BEST WAY TO GET IT IS TO FOCUS ON IT AND NOT ON AVOIDING REJECTION.
If you are focused on avoiding rejection, you WON'T do the things that are CRUCIAL for ATTRACTION.

You won't be SEXUAL.
You won't PUSH the interaction beyond the typical boring comfort zone.
You won't rock the boat at all.
You won't be edgy and playful and daring.
You won't invade her "personal space" soon in the conversation, in a confident way that actually turns her on with your confidence.

SCREW THE IDEA OF AVOIDING REJECTION!!!
You can't win BIG TIME if you are focused on that.

7 comments:

  1. Preach it. Also id post some of your dubstep on my blog if you send me a link and if its very filthy haha

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  2. Good advice, that I should really be following. haaha

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  3. Rejection can never be as worse as the last

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  4. regret is worse than rejection,

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  5. Nice advice! Could be really helpful to some people

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