Despite what "appears" to being going on in "the world at large", how loving and harmonious are your personal relationships?
Remember that the world, is your mirror. Casting back at you the reflection, of that which you have projected into it. How many arguments do you find yourself engaging in? Is there bitterness and acrimony within the ranks? Do you look at others, and think about how you would like to change them? Or, do you love them, and accept them as they are?
Loving and accepting someone, for who they are, is known as Unconditional Love. Now, loving and accepting someone as they are, does not mean accepting abusive behavior. But, it does mean loving and accepting the person (Soul), not the Soul's behavior. The behavior is not "who they are", the Soul within, is who they are.
The quality of your relationships, is an excellent mirror, from which to gauge the quality of your output. Or, in other words, that which you are Creating.
Do you look at a person, and concentrate to a greater or lesser extent, upon the things that you dislike about them and wish would change, or the qualities that you like and admire in them?
Remember that we have said, that all thought, word, and deed, is Creative.
You get back Exactly what you send out.
So, when you send out the thought "Why is she so hard to live with? Why is he always behaving like this?
Ask yourself, what exactly are you doing?
Now focus here, as this is so obvious, you could miss it. And in fact, most do.
Take away the "question" from your sentence, and essentially, you are saying:
"She is so hard to live with". "He is always behaving like this".
Do you see what you are doing?
Remember, All thought is creative..